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Swedes, don't be stingy!

Peter and I discussed something at dinner yesterday that I have to share. We have travelled a lot, and on many of our trips we have met new people who have generously offered us this or that. It doesn't matter if they were rich or poor. Even people who had no electricity or running water have generously offered us to eat and drink what they have.

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Inviting ... but not inviting

There are, of course, many generous people in Sweden as well, but every now and then we have people who first suggest that you visit them, and then think "why don't we share the cost of the meat" or "why don't you bring some wine". I don't know about you, but I get an uneasy feeling in my stomach. A lot of times it's people who think that there should be beef, seafood and fine wines on the table, but they've mortgaged the house so much that it stings a bit.

Can't you bid simply ...?

I don't mind being invited for pasta with meat sauce or cauliflower soup. But I want to be invited! I want to feel that the host or hostess actually wants to share whatever they have. Is it just me who realises that it can be like this in Sweden? And if so, what is it that makes us so stingy? Is it the feeling that things have to be so perfect, or do we just not want to share with our friends?

Middag hemma hos i Vietnam
Dinner with new friends (our tailors) in Vietnam 2007

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