Annika Myhre and her husband Tobias have three children aged 1-7, but that doesn't stop the family from going on exciting and exotic trips. The children have travelled to countries such as Tunisia, the USA and Taiwan, and right now the whole family has taken a 'Thai break' and is spending 3 months on Koh Lanta in Thailand, where their son also goes to school.
How is it possible to travel with (three) small children and how does it work in practice to spend several months abroad with the family? We have of course asked Annika about all this, and if you want to know even more, you can check out Annika's great travel blog. Travel Friday.
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Can you tell us a bit about yourself and your family?
I am a new 36-year-old who was born and raised in Karlskrona. However, I have had Stockholm as a base since I was 19, with interruptions for various trips and moves. Our family has now settled in Nynäshamn outside Stockholm and right now I am on parental leave from my regular job as a lawyer. I am married to Tobias and we have three children together: Sebastian (2008), Julia (2010) and Nelly (2014).
How and where did you travel before having children?
Before I met my husband, I travelled whenever I could - both for longer and shorter periods. I started studying at the university right after high school, but used most of my free time to travel (or work up money to travel).
My most memorable trip was after graduating from university, when I went on a solo trip around the world. I have also worked in the USA and studied/worked in Spain and Germany.
When my husband and I first met, I explained how important travelling was to me and made it clear that we would try living abroad at some point. During this period, however, we were both in the throes of our jobs and we had to adapt ourselves and our destinations accordingly - which mostly resulted in travelling to Europe.
We actually went on two honeymoons, the first was to Gran Canaria where we were knocked out by the flu for a week. A few months later we got our revenge and took a car in Florida combined with a Caribbean cruise. Then came a bunch of kids, and well, the rest is history!
Was it always obvious that you would travel even when you had children? In what ways did travelling change?
For me it was actually obvious! Before I had children, I remember someone saying to me - "Annika, you understand that you won't be able to continue travelling like this when you have children?" My spontaneous reaction was - "I will show them!”
However, I am aware that not everyone is physically or financially able to travel as we do. We have been lucky enough to have three healthy children and I am extremely grateful for our family situation that allows us to travel together as we do!
Of course, travelling changed, for example the hike on the Inca Trail in Peru that I did a couple of years before I had my first child would not have been possible with a baby in my arms. I'm not quite as adventurous with the kids in tow, their safety and security comes first. Everything has its time!
Can you tell us about the trips you have made with the children?
I can readily admit that I wasn't that cocky as a new mum to my first child. We started with a train journey to Karlskrona, then continued with trips to my sister in Scotland and a charter to Tunisia.
Gradually I/we became warmer in our clothes, and when our second child was born we travelled a few times to Europe and Dubai. When the middle daughter was just over a year old, we sold the house and I got my long-awaited move abroad when we settled in Sweden. Thailand for six months.
When I was pregnant with our third child, Nelly, we made a real dream trip with the children when we drove along the west coast of the USA for a few weeks. Nelly hangs out with the rest of the family out of the blue, when she was six months old I took her to Taiwan/China, and since then there have been several trips around Europe before we went here to Thailand again.
Now that you are an experienced traveller with children, what are your best tips for smooth travelling with children?
First of all, I don't think you should listen to them. for You shouldn't rely too much on others, but start from your own family's circumstances! Of course, there are plenty of practical tips to make travelling easier. Some of them include planning your hand luggage and avoiding the hunger traps of both young and old by packing a variety of snacks.
If you're travelling with a small child, it's a good idea to invest in a good baby carrier. I really don't know how I would have managed without my "Ergobaby" when travelling with Nelly. And last but not least: travel with the right expectations, or even better, without expectations! Because when travelling with children, anything can happen ...
You have now taken a three-month "Thaimout" in Thailand. How does it work in practice with work, accommodation and school?
I am on parental leave with our one-year-old. Our five-year-old is also at home during the day while our seven-year-old is in first grade at Lilla Svenska Skolan. Read more here about a day in the Little Swedish School. My husband runs his own business and can work from here. According to his wishes, we are staying at a Swedish-owned resort where there is a lot of beach volleyball.
Gradually, it becomes a daily routine down here too, but a daily routine without cooking, washing and cleaning! (We eat all the food out, cleaning is included in the rent and the laundry is handed in because we don't have a washing machine.) We managed without a single sick day throughout February - the month that in Sweden is called "Vabruari". That factor alone made it worth coming here, haha!
What are your best tips for others who would also like to take a "Thai break"?
In fact, I have written about three tips for a successful Thaimout (see below):
1. Learn about culture
Take the time to learn more about what applies here in Thailand. What is customary? Don't expect things to work like they do at home. Thailand is Thailand and Sweden is Sweden. Let yourself be sucked into the Thai way of life, the Thais have a light-hearted approach to life that we Swedes can learn a lot from!
2. avoid the peak season
Try as far as possible to avoid the peak season (December-January). During the low and mid-season, airline tickets, accommodation and school fees at Swedish schools are much cheaper. There are also fewer tourists, which means that beaches and restaurants are less crowded.
In addition, the traffic is less hectic with fewer vehicles on the road. The whole pace of the island slows down before and after the peak season, which means there's room to get to know the island and its people in a completely different way than if you're travelling here in the high season.
3. Live in the moment and forget about all the necessities
Must You'll have time to go on all the excursions and visit all the restaurants on the island - didn't you come here just to get away from it all? Don't bring your stress from home, take the opportunity to really relax and unwind while you're here. Any work or relationship problems can be dealt with when you return home. Stay long enough to find that long-awaited calm. Dare to be in the moment!
Finally, a question we ask everyone we interview: What is your dream destination?
It usually varies depending on the day you ask, but one destination that has long been a dream destination is Antarctica combined with Tierra del Fuego! If everything goes as I hope, I will go there when I turn 40. If the children can come with me? No, not even I think the idea of taking three rather small children to Antarctica, haha!
Thank you Annika Myhre for sharing your experiences and thoughts!
Lanclin says:
We went a bit in the same thoughts as Annika and her family but then we drove on a longer move abroad instead. It does not prevent us from making a Thai move later in life actually 🙂 Fun to read!
/Linnea
26 March 2016 - 9:09
Lennart says:
Daughter and family have a flat there.
Has recently come home after wintering.
26 March 2016 - 9:16
Mr Steve says:
One of the conclusions of all your guest interviews must be :
The vast majority of 'travel barriers' can be overcome.
I think travelling with the right expectations, or preferably no expectations, is wise advice. To take with you on all types of trips.
26 March 2016 - 9:02
admin says:
Steve, yes, many travel obstacles can be overcome, if it's travel you want to prioritise in your life. I agree with you about expectations. It is difficult to remove them completely perhaps, but it is probably good not to have them too high and be open to the fact that it will be as it is when travelling.
Lanclin, moving abroad is also exciting, to say the least. And as you say, there are opportunities in the future too!
Lennart, oh how wonderful! 🙂
26 March 2016 - 10:21
Ditte says:
Great fun to hear about Annika's thoughts on travelling with children and since she travelled a lot before the children, travelling is natural. Recognise myself a little here in the thoughts.
We have also travelled a lot both outside Europe and within when our daughters were young and later older and now we are talking about the time from 1983 to the end of the 1990s. For us, travelling was a way of life even before the children came and it continued with them. And now they are travelling with their children.
Like Annika, I think it is important not to have too many expectations but to take things as they come and be flexible.
I read Resfredag a few times a week and really enjoy that blog.
Thank you for another interesting Saturday guest.
26 March 2016 - 10:48
Mickey says:
Well, the wife's children and grandchildren are away from time to time.
It works ... if you are prepared to do it.
Take it as it comes is a good motto....as life in general should be too.
Goodbye.
26 March 2016 - 10:59
Ama de casa says:
Doesn't sound at all wrong with a Thai meal 🙂 .
26 March 2016 - 11:16
admin says:
Ditte, if you travelled a lot before your children and like to travel, you might not want to give up that lifestyle... Interesting to hear your thoughts and your own experiences from your travels!
Micke, yes, taking things as they come applies not only to travelling with children, but to everything in life 😉.
Ama de casa, right? 😉
26 March 2016 - 11:54
Åsa says:
When I read Tobias, Tunisia, Taiwan and Thailand, I thought of Ivar the Recluse, but the US ruined it all!
We travelled to Portugal twice, to Spain once and to England twice with ours when they were little. More complicated but more fun than travelling without kids!
26 March 2016 - 13:36
Discovering The Planet says:
Many good tips, even for those of us travelling without children!
26 March 2016 - 15:36
Anette says:
I met a family here in Bangkok on New Year's Eve who were heading to the same place. They were also going to be there for three months so I guess they are preparing for their return journey.
Great experience for a family.
26 March 2016 - 15:41
admin says:
Åsa, haha, you always think in your own way 😉 We have only travelled with slightly older children and young people (8-18), but agree that it is fun in its own way (although it can be more complicated in some ways). Among other things, we took them to Thailand, but also to New Zealand, southern Europe by motorhome and on a sun and bathing holiday in Ukraine (ie Yalta on the Crimean peninsula, at least it was Ukraine at that time...).
Anette, what fun! Yes, since there is a Swedish school, there must be several families doing this!
26 March 2016 - 16:39
Travel Friday says:
Thank you for having me as this week's guest! Great fun to read all the comments! Greetings from Koh Lanta 🙂
26 March 2016 - 18:08
BP says:
Wonderful interview! Here it is crystal clear that children do not have to be an obstacle to travel at all, but that you can combine benefit with pleasure if you say so. Well done there! More people should follow in the couple's footsteps!
26 March 2016 - 22:28
Linda says:
So nice and fun to read! Looking forward to reading more guest of the week with you!
27 March 2016 - 0:13
Denandraresan.com says:
Agree with not listening to others (who want to put obstacles) it is perfectly possible to travel with children. The more you travel, the easier it gets. My dream destination is also Antarctica. We have looked into it and found a boat that has a seven-year limit so it is possible to go there with children but not for small children.
27 March 2016 - 0:36
Veiken says:
Great! An attitude that I agree to 100% with. Travelling is life, with or without children!
27 March 2016 - 5:29
s p i n d e l t j e j e n says:
We are taking a Thailand trip this winter for 2.5 months but will not stay in one and the same place but travel around. We have seen so much of the country and want to visit some places again and some new ones 🙂 And include the Philippines in the trip as well 🙂 .
You have to take advantage when you are on parental leave and have a lot of holidays to take 🙂 .
27 March 2016 - 9:43
s p i n d e l t j e j e n says:
By the way!!!
If you want to give tips (perhaps in conjunction with this post) - I run a group on Facebook with 1500 members where tips and ideas are shared:
THAILAND GROUP - For those of us travelling with children 🙂 .
https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thailandgruppen
27 March 2016 - 9:45
admin says:
Travel Friday, great that you wanted to join us! 🙂
BP, I think it's inspiring when people don't let themselves be prevented from doing what they want!
Linda, glad you like our guest concept! We already have several interviews with interesting people in the queue 🙂.
Denandraresan, you really prove that children don't have to be an obstacle to making exciting trips!
Veiken, we can only agree that travelling is life! 🙂 We used to travel a lot with children and young people (8-18 years) but now it will be without children.
Spindeltjejen, oh how wonderful that you will also do a Thaimout! Thanks for the tip about the FB group too! It sounds like a very good and useful group for anyone travelling with children in Thailand!
27 March 2016 - 10:47
Maria says:
Very inspiring! 🙂
28 March 2016 - 11:58