Tom and Chris Frentz live in New Zealand, but have recently completed an eight-week hiking adventure in France. Eight years ago, they started planning for a life of freedom and adventure. Step by step, they have moved closer to their dream, which started with getting a campervan, living in it for six months and trying their hand at working on a vineyard.
Tom and Chris are relatives of Peter's son's wife, and we got the chance to interview them on Sunday, the day after we met at a crayfish disc.
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When did you decide on a different lifestyle?
"We used to live a very ordinary life," says Chris. 'We lived in Auckland with our two sons. I worked as an accountant and Tom worked for an IT company. We often rented a campervan on holiday and one morning eight years ago we woke up by the sea and asked ourselves "Where are we going to retire?". We realised that we wanted to be close to nature and that we wanted to live in Nelson, but that we also wanted to be able to easily travel from New Zealand.
How did you realise your dream?
Every decision we made after that day had the same goal. We bought property so that we could rent it out, thus earning an income without having to go to work every day. In 2013, we bought our house in Nelson and when Tom was finally able to retire, we rented out that house as well and bought a motorhome. Then we contacted a vineyard and asked if we could work there. It was six months in the campervan, while we worked on the farm.
Tell us about your motorhome!
Choosing a motorhome is not easy. "We first tried a motorhome with a drop-down bed, but that time I got sick," says Chris. "Then we realised that it doesn't work with one person lying in the bed and one person up. So we ended up with a motorhome with a fixed bed.
"We bought an Auto-Sleeper Malvern from the UK," says Tom. The advantage of British motorhomes is that they are built for left-hand traffic. It also met our other requirements, such as being a maximum of 7.5 metres long and suitable for the small roads of New Zealand.
Was it difficult to live in the motorhome for six months?
No, not at all! We have everything we need in the motorhome. But once we disagreed and had an argument, and I said I have nowhere to go," says Chris. "But as soon as I said that, we became friends again," she laughs.
What was it like to work on a vineyard?
'We love wine,' says Chris, 'and were keen to learn more about production. 'We worked on the farm for six months and there were different tasks at different times. Mostly the work was easy, but sometimes it was really hard.
"You get the minimum wage for the hours you work," Tom explains. 'Most people live in very basic camper vans with no toilet, but we lived comfortably in our camper van. During the harvest period, which lasted six weeks, we were needed all the time. The rest of the time we could take time off to hike and be in nature whenever we wanted.
Who works on a vineyard?
"We were the oldest," says Chris, laughing. Most of the people working on the vineyard are young people from other countries who are in New Zealand on working holiday visas. On the farm there were young people from France, Germany, USA, South America and Denmark. In addition, men from poor Pacific islands are given the opportunity to work in the vineyards and bring money back to their families.
Your next adventure went to Europe ... tell us!
"We went to Europe with a 'special objective'," says Tom. We were going to hike the 'GR10 Trail', which runs along the Pyrenees, on the French side. You start at the Atlantic coast and then hike to the Mediterranean, a hike that took us eight weeks and one day.
Wow, what an adventure! How did you do with food and accommodation?
'We alternated different types of accommodation,' says Tom. 'We had a tent with us and sometimes we stayed in it. Other times it was simple bed and breakfasts. Every week we also spent two nights in a hotel. It was really nice! We always had emergency provisions with us, but only for an occasional meal because we didn't want to carry heavy things. Most of the time we had lunch in a small village and dinner in a restaurant where we stayed.
What was the best part of the hike?
"The hike was physically challenging but also rewarding," says Chris. 'The scenery was amazing and we got away from all the noise. There's something special about just having the stuff you carry on your back, and not having to think about anything other than what to eat and where to sleep that day. We also met some amazing people along the way. When you hike in New Zealand you don't meet any people so it was a different experience for us, which we enjoyed!
What was the toughest?
'The walk itself is tough,' explains Tom, 'and there are parts where it's steep, although there are usually fences to hold on to. "I thought it was scary with all the animals," says Chris. "Mice and groundhogs were ok, but I didn't like all the big horses and cows running free. We're not used to that. Once a stallion with his mare and foal got in our way and they wouldn't let us pass. We had to take a different route.
How did you manage the hike?
'I couldn't imagine the whole walk from the beginning,' says Tom. 'It felt too big. Instead, I tried to think one week at a time. It was only after 20 miles, a quarter of the way through, that I began to think it was actually possible.
We had trained a lot before, Tom continues. "Partly through hard work at the vineyard, but also because we had done some short hikes in New Zealand. We also thought that we are on holiday and that it should be fun. One day when it was raining and thundering, we took a bus for a short distance. The most important thing for us was not that we had to walk every metre.
What are your plans now?
In a few days we are travelling to Norway to meet friends, then it's time to go back to New Zealand. We will stay in our house in Nelson for a while, but otherwise the plans are quite open. We will of course be travelling with our motorhome again!
We're also thinking about volunteering, taking care of nature campsites or hikers' cabins. Then we'd probably like to embark on some new exciting hike... where exactly that will be remains to be seen.
Alexandra says:
But wow! What a cool couple - they seem to really live life! 🙂
04 October 2017 - 8:55
Helena says:
Very inspiring people! 🙂
04 October 2017 - 16:55
Camilla says:
Wow! Inspiring! Carpe diem has apparently become a worn expression, but there are still relatively few who really capture the day! Great to read about and be inspired by people who really do it!
04 October 2017 - 9:14
Helena says:
It's really not everyone who dares, or has the strength to work towards the goal. Inspiring!
04 October 2017 - 16:56
Role o Carina says:
Lovely bold step to take but they probably did the right thing!
Take care.....
04 October 2017 - 9:19
Helena says:
Felt like they did the right thing! 🙂
04 October 2017 - 16:57
Ama de casa says:
Very impressive! To dare to live your dream, it's really big! Also liked that they allowed themselves to "cheat" there on the hike and take the bus a bit. It proves that you think right (in my opinion then). To unnecessarily force yourself into something that is really not fun, it does not put a gold edge on life directly 🙂.
Great reading about great people!
04 October 2017 - 9:48
Helena says:
Yes, that was a nice attitude! Liked! 🙂
04 October 2017 - 16:58
Mr Steve says:
It is wonderful to see people who dare to stop in life and take the time to think and then choose completely new paths for the "life journey". Inspiring!
04 October 2017 - 9:51
Helena says:
It's easy to get stuck doing what you've always done. Brave to dare to take completely different paths!
04 October 2017 - 16:59
Ruth in Virginia says:
I admire people who have a goal and actually start working.
towards that goal. In this couple's case, by buying property
to have income after retirement several years later.
Long-term planning that they stuck to, something that I'm very proud of.
bad at. / Working in a vineyard; interesting of course.
The hike - what an ordeal and what an experience! As Ama
says; glad to see, that Tom and Chris were not out to overcome the
difficulties but instead thrive (and take the bus). 🙂 Also like that
there with B & B and a couple of hotel nights per week and not having to
cook!
Peter's son has really "chosen" great relatives by marriage. 🙂
04 October 2017 - 12:28
Helena says:
I agree that it is impressive when people have a goal and work towards it. I hear in some contexts that people say "fantastic that they got that opportunity" etc. But many times it is not something that someone "got" but something you have worked purposefully towards. And yes, Robin has "chosen" excellent "extra relatives" 🙂.
04 October 2017 - 17:04
clara says:
But wow what a dream! Will send this post to my boyfriend haha, hope he can imagine this!!!
04 October 2017 - 14:04
Helena says:
That's cool, isn't it? 🙂
04 October 2017 - 22:28
Joanna says:
So good post, really good with that of which with hotels during the hike. Have not thought that you could do that so that everything does not become too much of the same thing. In any case, thanks for letting me take part in the adventures!
Have a super awesome day
04 October 2017 - 17:01
Helena says:
Nice idea to alternate hiking in nature, but some comfortable nights in hotels. I like that idea 🙂
04 October 2017 - 22:29
BP says:
Great! What a couple, or rather what a smart couple!!! To not only "change lifestyle" but to buy property first so that you do not have to worry about the economy. I would never have thought of that;-)
Wishing Tom and Chris the best of luck with all the adventures ahead!!!
04 October 2017 - 19:39
Helena says:
Of course, if you really want something, it helps to plan and stick to your plan! 😉
05 October 2017 - 7:16
Goatfish says:
Super interesting post!
What people and what forward thinking!
I have hiked in Spain and this particular thing of only having worries for "this" day, was very nice. And everything worked out, you had to think a lot yourself and people were helpful.
I wish Tom and Chris all the best for the future! 😀
04 October 2017 - 21:08
Helena says:
Hiking in Spain also sounds like an experience! We have never done any longer hiking, but I was a bit inspired by just being, and not having to think about anything more than food and a place to sleep for the day.
05 October 2017 - 7:18
Maya Nordlund says:
What cool, inspiring, people? How clever to buy property to rent out, maybe you should do that yourself? ☺️
I recognise the parts about living in a car and working on a vineyard here in New Zealand - and yes, it can be really tiring sometimes!
Will probably update the Honda for the next long trip, a motorhome seems magical?
04 October 2017 - 21:40
Helena says:
What fun that you recognise yourself in this with vineyard in NZ! 🙂 And yes, motorhome is comfortable we can promise! When you live in a motorhome, you have everything you need 🙂.
05 October 2017 - 7:19
Eva - People in the Street says:
Great to read! I am always impressed to read about people following their dream. So also this time ?
04 October 2017 - 22:02
Helena says:
Yes, us too. That's why we wanted to do the interview 🙂 .
05 October 2017 - 7:19
Elisabeth says:
What a great life!
04 October 2017 - 22:29
Ditte says:
Thank you for an interesting and very rewarding interview. And you can influence life yourself in many ways, as is very clear here. But perhaps there must be some courage and of course the body must be able to cope.
It's exciting to see what's next for Tom and Chris and I wish them all the best.
04 October 2017 - 22:38
Helena says:
Yes, it does take some mental and physical strength. But the physical strength will come along the way (if you're lucky enough to be healthy).
05 October 2017 - 7:20
Lena - good for the soul says:
How wonderful to have such a common goal, work towards it and then see it become reality! Inspiring!
Hug Lena
06 October 2017 - 20:34
Sara says:
What wonderful people!
08 October 2017 - 16:44